CUT out all drinks (ESPECIALLY alcohol if you want to see FAST results), except for water, tea, maybe milk
eating 4-6 light meals throughout the day including snacks (fruits) is best to boost your metabolism
DRINK LOTS of WATER... i make sure my piss is as clear as possible all day
use the 2 hour rule for eating before sleep
DO have a nice breakfast, DONT skip MEALS
try to include as may veggies (the greener the better) and FRUITS (they fill ya up and are great snacks and if you get bored you can blend them in a shake, blueberries, redberries, blackberries, bananas, apples, oranges, grape)
i personally stay away from RED MEAT, and just go chicken breast only
stay away from those CARB filled foods, and especially "enriched or white _____", i only eat whole foods and the more FIBER, the BETTER
almonds and other nuts are good for you in moderation (they have good fats and are good fillers + lots of energy, just make sure you get them UNSALTED, because thats a lot of sodium if you get "smoked" etc. )
if you want to see QUICK results....TOSS OUT
-fast foods
-going out to eat
-ANY and ALL sweets (brownies, bars, candy, cakes, soda, sugary juices)
oatmeal is good but the best oatmeal is the steel oats or whatever, and make sure you dont just eat the oatmeal in packets that come with "flavoring" because thats just sugar...
one MORE THING, AVOID HIGH FRUCTOSE CORN SYRUP
list of foods i always buy
eggs/egg whites
fruits
vegetables
tuna
chicken
100% wheat whole bread
turkey or ham
fat free yogurt (great to mix with berries/fruit for a snack or even a shake)
protein powder (whey, make sure you cop at least 5lbs worth at a time to save $)
i'm 5'8" but used to weigh in a 205 max but dropped to a steady 165...
i would advise you to hit the WEIGHTS hard, it'll burn your fat and build muscle then you will be loosing pounds like nothing...
i went the other route and just lost ~40 pounds and now im really hitting the weights to get super lean and build muscle, its harder...
go hard my man, change is always good, motivation = self esteem, confidence, pu$$y