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[antbanks81]

@ AntBanks21 I feel you but I'm looking around and I'm getting older...not to sound like a lil ***** but it lightweight scares me...half of me feels like being young an free...the other half of me feels like sometimes bein settled would be nice
What if I never find her?

LMAO I see what you did there...what's to be afraid of? that you won't fall in love like in the movies? The problem I see with a lot of you guys in your 20s is that you try to live your lives by your elders' standards. Just cause mom and pops got married at 20 doesn't mean you have to do the same. These are your selfish, learning years. If you're not the type to sleep around, then just casually date. But get off that clock ASAP.

 

[richiecotite]

**** those feelings. When the time is right you will know it and hopefully be in the position to do so. Have fun and live life with no regrets young man

This n AntBanks spitting that truf today....

 

[Mark Antony]

I thought I'd be married by 30, but I realized anything like that by now would've just been settling, not real. Life doesn't work out the way you want to, but you gotta take experiences and grow. When it's right it'll happen, don't force it. I know way too many divorced/formerly engaged people under 30. And 30 single > 20 single btw.

 

[incredibleev]

Whats good all i'm 29 and getting married next Sunday

I met a girl I fell in love and we felt it was time. Just happens.

Just do what you want, its all #newrules anyway.

 

[daytona 5000]

People are soooo different. What works for me isn't going to work for someone else. Just be true to yourself and do what feels right to you.
**** societies timeline on where you should be by a certain age. As long as you're handling your responsibilities who cares. Enjoy life my guys

 

[ricardo malta]

If you were living in NYC you wouldn't know "settling down" or "marriage" even existed. It's weird to think about how your location and surrounding demographic influences your thinking about this topic.

Guys and girls are out here running around like there's no church in the wild

 

[toast1985]

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[finnns2003]

If you were living in NYC you wouldn't know "settling down" or "marriage" even existed. It's weird to think about how your location and surrounding demographic influences your thinking about this topic.

Guys and girls are out here running around like there's no church in the wild

I'm 26, marriage? Kids? Settling down?

HA.

 

[carver]

It's funny how the term "settling down" is perceived.  Just because you settle down doesn't mean you stop partying, traveling and having fun 

I got married at 22 (am 25 now) and have not regretted it for one minute, we travel 3-4 times a year and have two beautiful kids 

Couldn't imagine pushing 30 and still living that single lifestyle

Im on the same path engaged now at the age of 20. The partying, having fun, and traveling doesn't stop. Maybe if you find someone in your 30s it does. Me personally I think in this day in age if I waited 10 more years to find a girl she would most likely be a h**.If a girl is still single by 30 something is up. Thats just how I feel.

But dont stress on not having a girl/wife by a certain she will come when you least expect it, never LOOK for love.

:x :x

good luck with that, bro... cuz chances are very slim for y'all statistically speaking .

Are those same "statistics" better for someone who gets engaged and married at 30? Beezy if you feel like you already found the right girl it don't matter what other people say.. do you pimp

 

[gllahone84]

Dudes are not suppose to feel like this...

Acting like you got a biological clock ticking away or something...chicks trying to tie dudes down bruh...just so you can't enjoy all that's out here for kings like us...

See the reason we like all these diamonds and these flashy things is cause we really from Africa...

 

[ooiron manoo]

31, single, no kids, no wife, no dambs...

We don't have a ticking biological clock, unless you want to fall in line with what society says "you have to have", just sayin'

 

[gllahone84]

31, single, no kids, no wife, no dambs...

We don't have a ticking biological clock, unless you want to fall in line with what society says "you have to have", just sayin'

Same position iron...except a few years younger.

 

[Sir San Diego]

I think it depends on your individual experiences rather than your age. If you feel that you've had enough meaningless sex, traveled enough and have had enough of the life you're currently living, then yes it's time to do something different.

There's nothing more pathetic than that dusty *** dude still trying to look and act young.

I mean how many randoms and friends with benefits can one man smash before it gets tired? Getting "turnt up" and all that is cool for a little while, but if you hit 40 and all you have to show for it is pics of parties and women you smashed, then you're doing it wrong.

 

[jayjones89]

I cause myself the most stress when i worry about a cookie cutter set of goals based on age or 'point in my life".

Dont over think it. Live this life. if you find somebody that you feel is worth settling down with do it. if not, so what.

keep a solid circle of friends, new or not lol, stay as close with the fam as possible and dont stress over money or broads.

Ill be 27 on the 21st and there are people around me close in age that i am "ahead" of and some i am "behind" for lack of better terms and based on "cookie Cutter goals". at the end of the day you just have to take YOUR journey and see where you end up, you might not like being like the next man, feel me?

I like this

Cookie cutter goals are the worst

 

[jayjones89]

I think it depends on your individual experiences rather than your age. If you feel that you've had enough meaningless sex, traveled enough and have had enough of the life you're currently living, then yes it's time to do something different.

There's nothing more pathetic than that dusty *** dude still trying to look and act young.

I mean how many randoms and friends with benefits can one man smash before it gets tired? Getting "turnt up" and all that is cool for a little while, but if you hit 40 and all you have to show for it is pics of parties and women you smashed, then you're doing it wrong.

Its always the younger cats that are sayin this though.

If old man still got the juice to be living like a 20 year old I say more power to him. Who knows what path he took to get to where hes at.

 

[gllahone84]

I think it depends on your individual experiences rather than your age. If you feel that you've had enough meaningless sex, traveled enough and have had enough of the life you're currently living, then yes it's time to do something different.

There's nothing more pathetic than that dusty *** dude still trying to look and act young.

I mean how many randoms and friends with benefits can one man smash before it gets tired? Getting "turnt up" and all that is cool for a little while, but if you hit 40 and all you have to show for it is pics of parties and women you smashed, then you're doing it wrong.

What's the magic number?

Cause I'm trying to hit that mark....

 

[Sir San Diego]

I don't know.

My number got fuzzy after 175 and I figured that's hitting "dusty" territory. Depends on you man. I've lived on both coasts, traveled, partied, etc. I've lived the good life and the low life. I'm on a different path now. I don't think there is a magic number. It's all about where your head is and what your goals are in life.

I still have the stamina. I've smashed 7 times in one day recently with no problems. I'm still in shape at 35, but what's life about at my age? Smashing? Pretty women? I've been there and done all of that. I want millions, a family to come home to and a devoted wife that I can be a devoted husband to.

I don't really feel validated by what I can take anymore. I want to leave something behind.

 

[gllahone84]

I don't know.

My number got fuzzy after 175 and I figured that's hitting "dusty" territory. Depends on you man. I've lived on both coasts, traveled, partied, etc. I've lived the good life and the low life. I'm on a different path now. I don't think there is a magic number. It's all about where your head is and what your goals are in life.

I still have the stamina. I've smashed 7 times in one day recently with no problems. I'm still in shape at 35, but what's life about at my age? Smashing? Pretty women? I've been there and done all of that. I want millions, a family to come home to and a devoted wife that I can be a devoted husband to.

I don't really feel validated by what I can take anymore. I want to leave something behind.

I respect it bruh...

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

I'm 28 and wish I was settled already. Truthfully.

 

[Mark Antony]

I'm 28 and wish I was settled already. Truthfully.

That's about when I started thinking this. Led to a crazy *** spiral. Clear your head, give it some serious thought, then make a move in the direction you choose.

 

[larrydavid]

It's funny how the term "settling down" is perceived.  Just because you settle down doesn't mean you stop partying, traveling and having fun 

I got married at 22 (am 25 now) and have not regretted it for one minute, we travel 3-4 times a year and have two beautiful kids 

Couldn't imagine pushing 30 and still living that single lifestyle

Im on the same path engaged now at the age of 20. The partying, having fun, and traveling doesn't stop. Maybe if you find someone in your 30s it does. Me personally I think in this day in age if I waited 10 more years to find a girl she would most likely be a h**.If a girl is still single by 30 something is up. Thats just how I feel.

But dont stress on not having a girl/wife by a certain she will come when you least expect it, never LOOK for love.

:x :x

good luck with that, bro... cuz chances are very slim for y'all statistically speaking .

Are those same "statistics" better for someone who gets engaged and married at 30? Beezy if you feel like you already found the right girl it don't matter what other people say.. do you pimp

To answer your question, obviously yes.
Lust is commonly confused for love from the ages 17-21, the odds of that marriage lasting for the long haul is less than 10%.

 

[RickBlast]

Im 26 and honestly thought I would never get married. But things change, in grad school I met my girl we just moved across the country together and I couldnt be happier. I can only see settling down only when one has huge responsibilities like kids, mortage etc. I think the key is first to be able to make yourself happy if you cant do that there is no way your "settling down relationship" will work.  My girl and I travel together, go to music festivals, and love partying and using illegal substances. But we also have time to ourselves to grow and improve as individuals. If you think being in a serious relationship means giving up your you time then you are with the wrong person. My advice is be yourself and do things that make you happy then you will find that person who lets and wants you to continue to do those things. I dont think we were meant to be alone, i cant think of any animals that travels alone we need that friendship and comradery but I do think it can come through a significant other or friends.

 

[dathbgboy]

Funny how we put age and gender into perspective when it comes to things. Most dudes will be willing to let a good girl go just so you can smash a few birds, foolish if u ask me. You only get 3 great ones in your life.

 

[Sir San Diego]

Funny how we put age and gender into perspective when it comes to things. Most dudes will be willing to let a good girl go just so you can smash a few birds, foolish if u ask me. You only get 3 great ones in your life.

While I agree with most of your statement, I'm not buying that last part unless you're taking life advice from "A Bronx Tale".

There's no specific number of women who will love you that you get assigned at your birth. Walk around here thinking you got three shots and you may miss out on the first or second which may have been your best bet.

If you're wise and ready to accept real love, take it and appreciate it when it's given and return it. Don't be on that dumb ****.

 

[dathbgboy]

Funny how we put age and gender into perspective when it comes to things. Most dudes will be willing to let a good girl go just so you can smash a few birds, foolish if u ask me. You only get 3 great ones in your life.

While I agree with most of your statement, I'm not buying that last part unless you're taking life advice from "A Bronx Tale".

There's no specific number of women who will love you that you get assigned at your birth. Walk around here thinking you got three shots and you may miss out on the first or second which may have been your best bet.

If you're wise and ready to accept real love, take it and appreciate it when it's given and return it. Don't be on that dumb ****.

I know But you're right w/ your last line. Problem is, even if the love is there, dudes quick to say "I'm too young to settle down" yet they tellin ppl there's not a biological clock when u should settle down