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So it was like this, but with dogs, sand and water OP?
So it was like this, but with dogs, sand and water OP?
And you were smashing other girls.Bruh you dont even claim her though.
you didn't want to commit to her.
she played you for it.
but you can't say anything because you were seeing other girls early on
Now that you can't say anything, you just want to dead her.
you played yourself.
Alright ya'll, would appreciate some advice:she had drug problems.
-Me and this girl that have been "dating" for about 5 months were at the beach this past weekend. She brings her dog with her.
-There are some other dogs at the beach. And her dog starts playing with another dog who was by itself (we didn't see the owner at all for the whole day) The dogs were having an amazing time, everything was great.
-This was huge for her because her dog isn't the most social around other dogs. So she was happy to see her dog interacting with another all day.
- Later in the day, the owner, comes to grab his dog. This is why I'm making this thread......Homegirl gives him her number and suggests that they have a dog meet up for their dogs to play sometime. This happens in front of me.
-This was an immediate red flag for me and I told her we need to talk about this. Planning on addressing it in length tomorrow.
-Ultimately, I've decided I'm going to cut her off and end it. I don't tolerate that and out of self respect, I'm done with you if you give your number out to a stranger. K Camped. Period.
-As I'm about to end this, my other female friend who I consulted said that I'm overreacting and mixing up her love for her dog with violating trust and respect..
NT- how would you handle this situation? Am I overreacting or am I right?
Some other notes:
-We been smashing for 5 months but I haven't asked her to be my GF yet. However, she has introduced me to her friends and coworkers as her "boyfriend" to which I stayed silent.
I think as of right now, we are both attracted and invested in each other, but she definitely is pushing for commitment more than I am.
-She has been pretty flexible with me. I had girls visit from out of town, who booked their flights way before I met her, who ended staying with me. She was furious about it, but I rationalized with her and she was able to live with it. Yes I slipped up and cheated but this was EARLY (1 month in the relationship, still getting to know each other.) Point is, she is able to be flexible.
-She is a bit more of a "free spirit" than the type I usually date. Not promiscuous, but more so lives her life the way she wants to live it. No indication that she would cheat or has ever cheated, but who knows. She also has a storied past, dealt without a lot of pain and drama (not her fault,) but also had periods where
Full proof plan to come out on top:
-Have her call and set up a play date with dude's dog
-You show up to the play date with the dog instead
-Have ole boy clap your cheeks before he gets a chance to clap your girls's
-Have the dogs watch, look them in the eyes when it is going down, assert your dominance. Let them know you're the pack leader
-Go home to your girl, immediately break up with her, and trash talk ole boy's pipe game. Make her know she down grading
-Keep her dog for yourself
Or you could have rational conversation like two adults letting her know that behavior bothers you and is not something you want your GF to be doing. But handling a situation like a mature adult is for the birds
I bet you looked madd befuddled holding the leash as numbers were being exchanged.
men and women exchange numbers "everyday, b" for a number of reasons
NT acting like every girl who's # they got wanted to give them the ***, yet telling tales of the friendzone in TAY
if your girl is trustworthy and wants to be your girl, as you outlined, what you worried about? it could have strictly been so her dog as friend and you over here bugging out... does she have a pattern of this kind of behavior? is she a naturally friendly person? gotta put all that into perspective before you make assumptions.... again, from how you described her, she's a good girl in your eyes
should have just chilled and waited to see if she started texting the dude or if she invited you when the dogs went out to play