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I tend to find myself in situations most people (men) avoid because of the possible outcome and the affects it may have on their lives. But me… I like to take chances, live for the moment and enjoy the experience as longs as the majority of it is positive. I mean, why not? YOLO right?
An older guy I used to work with always had a story to tell. He’s fought in wars, traveled the world and has made decisions that just had me in awe every time he’d tell me. From his missions being a military sniper to dating a black woman in Africa where the idea of blacks and whites being together was not accepted. Even though he was almost killed for dating her, he said never regretted it. And honestly, I don’t want to be that dude when asked by his grandchildren what his life story is, and its “I worked in a cube for 40 years then retired, now im to F’n old and tired to even bang that chick down the block and snort some coke with her.
Top 5 regrets of the dying
#1 I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
Do I have feelings for this woman? That depends on what your definition of feelings are. Through my experience and past relationships, ive allowed myself to have different degrees of “feelings” for people. That doesn’t mean in ready to jump into a relationship with them though. Ishh, I probably wouldnt get into a relationship with someone unless I loved them first. I can enjoy the connection and emotion with the individual without the difficulty of thinking I may have to let them go if need be. Ive had women come and go for years, But what ever the outcome I took it for what it was, absorbed the experience and moved forward.
My feelings for her are limited to, She’s cool, we get along, we have fun together and unfortunately the sex is good. Im a sucker for banging sex, that’s why I said I cant tell her how good it was, or she’ll try and use it against me.
Shorty’s real cool though. The stripper thing doesn’t faze me like that. Ive stripped to so who am I to judge? She can hold a convo and not just a 1 way convo about herself.
Ive went on dates with too many boring, self absorbed women that all they did was yap yap yap about NOTHING. To the point where I had to cut them off and say “Hey, you wanna see my prince albert” just to F up their selfish train of thought.
From the replies of who actually “dated” a stripper, it seems you had a good time. Some of you even regret not keeping her around a bit longer. And I may do that. Keep her around as long as she doesn’t start boring me to death. She can have her other guys as I have other women. She can keep stripping even though she says she’s done. Its her life. But trust me, Im definitely not jumping into a relationship with her. Even if she never stripped a day in her life.
"The worst decisions make the best stories"
An older guy I used to work with always had a story to tell. He’s fought in wars, traveled the world and has made decisions that just had me in awe every time he’d tell me. From his missions being a military sniper to dating a black woman in Africa where the idea of blacks and whites being together was not accepted. Even though he was almost killed for dating her, he said never regretted it. And honestly, I don’t want to be that dude when asked by his grandchildren what his life story is, and its “I worked in a cube for 40 years then retired, now im to F’n old and tired to even bang that chick down the block and snort some coke with her.
Top 5 regrets of the dying
#1 I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
Do I have feelings for this woman? That depends on what your definition of feelings are. Through my experience and past relationships, ive allowed myself to have different degrees of “feelings” for people. That doesn’t mean in ready to jump into a relationship with them though. Ishh, I probably wouldnt get into a relationship with someone unless I loved them first. I can enjoy the connection and emotion with the individual without the difficulty of thinking I may have to let them go if need be. Ive had women come and go for years, But what ever the outcome I took it for what it was, absorbed the experience and moved forward.
My feelings for her are limited to, She’s cool, we get along, we have fun together and unfortunately the sex is good. Im a sucker for banging sex, that’s why I said I cant tell her how good it was, or she’ll try and use it against me.
Shorty’s real cool though. The stripper thing doesn’t faze me like that. Ive stripped to so who am I to judge? She can hold a convo and not just a 1 way convo about herself.
Ive went on dates with too many boring, self absorbed women that all they did was yap yap yap about NOTHING. To the point where I had to cut them off and say “Hey, you wanna see my prince albert” just to F up their selfish train of thought.
From the replies of who actually “dated” a stripper, it seems you had a good time. Some of you even regret not keeping her around a bit longer. And I may do that. Keep her around as long as she doesn’t start boring me to death. She can have her other guys as I have other women. She can keep stripping even though she says she’s done. Its her life. But trust me, Im definitely not jumping into a relationship with her. Even if she never stripped a day in her life.
"The worst decisions make the best stories"