Dad Forgets 1 Year Old Twin Babies Are In His Car For 8 Hours....

[solewoman]

And you think he can't put 2 and 2 together? We aren't stupid man.

All I am saying, just think about how that makes your husband feel.

To a much SMALLER degree, I compare it to standing over top of someone's shoulder while they are cooking (for you). Let them work, literally, let them cook. Checking in on them tells them, "Ehhhh, I don't really trust you."

I understand your point. But we do what works for us. If and when he gets to the point where it is an issue he will gladly let me know.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

I understand your point. But we do what works for ME. If and when he gets to the point where it is an issue he will gladly let me know.

*Fixed.

I got you though.

 

[iamdef]

Lol I can completely see dude just doesn't want the smoke of saying anything so he just goes along with it

 

[solewoman]

*Fixed.

I got you though.

 

[ksteezy]

Have any of you guys ever got out your car , walked away and said to yourself "did I lock the car"? Knowing there is a 99 percent chance you did it. You just forgot doing it because it's so routine. You run back out to check the car door and it's locked ..


Imagine having 2 twins...

I’ve walked away from my car and left it on, keyless starter....lol like Jay said, car seats don’t face you, he dropped off the other kid and who knows what was going through his head and legit forgot, does that make it any less negligent? Nah, does that mean he shouldn’t pay? Nah...but is a hugeeeee difference from an accidental **** up and a premeditated one

 

[llerraj]

The other topic no one is discussing: should he be punished for this?

Yes. It was negligence at worst. I don't care if he will have to deal with it for the rest of his life. His actions caused two deaths.

 

[storm2006]

Wrong thread

 

[joe billionaire]

I press the lock button on my keys from far away lol I never go check the handle

I don’t have kids or have even been around kids that much. I’d def have to enroll in some sort of class and have alarm reminders set if I ever become a parent

 

[ksteezy]

Yes. It was negligence at worst. I don't care if he will have to deal with it for the rest of his life. His actions caused two deaths.

Without a question he deserves to serve time, wether intentional or not, it was negligent and two lives were lost...bottomline, he destroyed his family.

 

[Magic33]

Feel like we've answered this multiple times over tho. Again, feel free to detract from my point as a non-parent but I am an uncle.

Dont think about my nephews and nieces at all unless someone brings them up or im going to spend time with them.

Some people are just wired different. I don't really think about my pops, my grandmother, homies, etc. while im preoccupied with something else like work unless a conversations pops up remotely relevant to them.

If I unconsciously believe they're okay during this time im preoccupied, why do I need to think about them? Combine that with the human tendency to fall into routines and ****ed up situations like this seem plausible.

Queue a parent telling me im not father material if I dont think about my kids 25 hours a day cause NT extremes

 

[nawghtyhare]

Police say 1 baby dead, 1 in hospital after twin newborns were found near a dumpster in Fairfield


Police say twin newborns were discovered in Fairfield near a large outdoor trash container on Tuesday afternoon.




Updated a few seconds ago
FAIRFIELD, Calif. (KGO) -- Police say one baby has died and the other has been hospitalized after twin newborns were found near a large outdoor trash container in Fairfield.

According to authorities, the investigation is underway along the 300 block of Pittman Road.


No other details have been released at this time.

https://abc7news.com/police-1-newborn-dead-after-twins-found-near-fairfield-dumpster/5431185/

 

[sooperhooper]

Despicable

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Thankfully one survived. Family probably doesn't know what to feel with that news.

 

[3am scholar]

If oops I forgot was a valid mistake less people would be behind bars.

 

[ahat]

Police say 1 baby dead, 1 in hospital after twin newborns were found near a dumpster in Fairfield


Police say twin newborns were discovered in Fairfield near a large outdoor trash container on Tuesday afternoon.




Updated a few seconds ago
FAIRFIELD, Calif. (KGO) -- Police say one baby has died and the other has been hospitalized after twin newborns were found near a large outdoor trash container in Fairfield.

According to authorities, the investigation is underway along the 300 block of Pittman Road.


No other details have been released at this time.

https://abc7news.com/police-1-newborn-dead-after-twins-found-near-fairfield-dumpster/5431185/

Disgusting

 

[storm2006]

Probably didn’t have insurance. That’s why we need Medicare 4 All.

 

[2oh6ridah]

I used a rear facing back seat mirror when I had my baby. Kept him on the passenger side too so I could see him when I checked my blind spot.

 

[storm2006]

Can you put a baby in the back of a sports car or nah?

 

[Magic33]

I don't understand it. Forgetting your keys in the car or leaving your phone somewhere. Leaving your kids and forgetting about them?

 

[illphillip]

Even driving around with mine recently, I was thinking about this.

I have ALWAYS talked to them when they were in the back seat. Constantly looked at them in my rear view. Reached back to get a handshake/slap at a red light.

**** is extraordinarily hard to fathom.

 

[llerraj]

Won't be charged. Bronx DA dropped the ball here.

 

[shogun]

A go fund me already up to $80k plus for his legal fees.

 

[llerraj]

A go fund me already up to $80k plus for his legal fees.

Kill your kids and get money. America.

 

[storm2006]

A go fund me already up to $80k plus for his legal fees.

Did he start the GoFundMe? Will he have to give it back now?

 

[shogun]

Kill your kids and get money. America.

Some people love giving away their money. Dunno why they want to pay his legal fees, let him take care of it himself or get a public defender like anyone else.