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The more I read this thread the more I realize how little life experience dudes have.
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^ Most soft dudes and those exact same females would say that "testing her" is abusive and controlling.
But I agree with you +9000. Being naive is one of the worst things you can be in this world.
gotchaJust take that example and multiply by a number. **** happens all the time my dude.
I know a female who's married and had an abortion because she got knocked up by ONE of the dudes she *****. These females are out here bad. Trust. It's the "classy" ones who drive the nice cars that some lames put on a pedestal that most would least expect too.
Don't let appearances fool you. A lot of these females are trife. That's all I got. Just be smart and don't wife someone up on looks. Put a female to the test and get a rider. I mean TEST her and see if she's about it like she says she is. I'm not saying demean or abuse her, but see if she's down for you when you don't have it or when you look like a bum that just rolled out of bed. See if her love is just as deep as your pockets or your looks. See how she is when other dudes are around. See how she is with her own fam... her friends... etc. What's her work ethic. **** like that.
And after all of that. Don't get married.
The more I read this thread the more I realize how little life experience dudes have.
OP, I am with you. I don't think I'm ever gonna get married or have children. All these petty relationships I see around me are disheartening. I just can't do it. I'm 25, and honestly don't see any woman that is my soulmate.
I actually prefer being alone. Wouldn't mind dying alone tbh.I don't want to die alone
OP, I am with you. I don't think I'm ever gonna get married or have children. All these petty relationships I see around me are disheartening. I just can't do it. I'm 25, and honestly don't see any woman that is my soulmate.
Is that because of the people that don't agree with you?
That's a serious question, not being facetious.
You like I are still very young. They say if you are on top of your own ****, she'll come when you're not looking. That doesn't sound far-fetched to me. Even in saying that though, im still not sure I ever will get married. But I believe I have more to lose by not being at least open to the possibility.
wordSome of ya'll do need to really get out in live though.
are we as men admitting we have can't control our women? And by control I mean lead our women into a a lasting relationship
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A word to the wise...
Stay single my dudes. And this is coming from someone who was married once. I divorced her, not the other way around. You want your future and hard work hanging in the balance of a coin flip? You know YOU. You'll never fully know someone else. People change... lose interest... become lazy... get bored.
new? it started in the 70sInfidelity is the new black....
Stop watching that MTV, VHI crap and go to church more often. You'll see 'families' and 'marriage' still in tact.
Yeah, but then you'd be in a church :xStop watching that MTV, VHI crap and go to church more often. You'll see 'families' and 'marriage' still in tact.
I'm just suggesting people to stop polluting their perception about failed marriages and insecurities. It can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. You're not the only one that's insecure.Yeah, but then you'd be in a church
I'm just suggesting people to stop polluting their perception about failed marriages and insecurities. It can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. You're not the only one that's insecure.
some women be hustling menIm in nursing school and i noted, maybe 3 divorced women in my class living large or arent hurting... I cant really specifically say theyre in the wrong or wasnt set before hand, but they dont work(they do have custody of the kids, parents watch them while in class or the kids are in class while we are in class). Has me pondered on how someone who doesnt physically work is able to take care of 3+ kids... One actually got a car and house from the deal.. Im all for marriage but unfairness is not my game..