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Originally Posted by sixzerofour
Feel you fam, I was on the same boat.
I straight deleted my twitter/fb for a good minute, you're going to be tempted to look her up.. don't.
Time, as it's already been said. Don't substitute the time you would usually spend kick it with her on something negative... drinking, smoking.. etc. Find something productive to do, Improve yourself. This is a good time to pick up that hobby you've been looking up for a minute or read that book you've been meaning too. Kick it with your boys and honestly let em know if you're feeling down, if they're really your friends, they'll help you out. Finding other women is cool sometimes, butI did this for a minute and it can actually make it worse. It sort of makes you start to rely on the company of others to make you feel better, and you don't want that. So I say, just do you.
Not sure how you guys broke it off, but I assure you, one day you guys will be OK. After a 3 year relationship you guys are going to carry a little bit from each other, so no matter what you did (unless you killed a family member or something... which is a really extreme example) or what she did, cooler, more mature heads will eventually prevail.
and the most important thing of all.. Don't carry around false hope. If you know it's over, don't beat yourself up by thinking you'll be back together in no time. I guarantee you, false hope will be the death of you and it will make you do some stupid things.
I'm guessing you're pretty young, so just let things run their course, you can't help her now, so don't harm her.
It's never easy, especially if it's a girl you care about but hope that helps bruh. Good luck.
Make sure you read this twice OP. I was in the same situation with one of my ex. I was still young, it was the first serious relationship I had, mad inlove nd s@"$, it took me a while to recover but, it is what it is... U are prolly thinking that you will get her back but if she said it's over, than it's over... She ain't coming back. U two might still talk here nd there but it's not going to be the same, something will be missing, u prolly know what, you just don't wanna accept that u messed up or something. Now just do you, nd focus in school or whatever ur doing, don't let her see you down and weak, cus that's just gonna make things worse. Achieve your goals, and you will see that later on, you will find someone better. Good luck bruh