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it's type useless for man to worry about something they could never (in)validate positively or negatively, still the way a lot of women are moving, is the insecurity not kinda valid? man in the past did not have nearly as much competition as today...
what's a ridiculous amount? would getting that number be absolutely irresponsible in & of itself or could there be a possible 'responsible' or not 'irresponsible' approach to amassing that ridiculous total? overall, i'd say most men are relatively responsible tho, women have more children than men ( and more by mulitiple men) & ultimately decide on access, birth control, & contraception...
i don't know when asking for a number changed, but social media has basically made the request seem weird these times
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Can’t hate on anyone doing what I’m doing. I don’t see how anyone could. 
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Asking body count numbers is pointless because 1.) you’re probably not gonna get an honest answer and 2.) you can’t verify it anyways 
Go get tested and live your life. Too much other **** to be stressing bout.
Go get tested and live your life. Too much other **** to be stressing bout.
Asking body count numbers is pointless because 1.) you’re probably not gonna get an honest answer and 2.) you can’t verify it anyways
Go get tested and live your life. Too much other **** to be stressing bout.
All that sounds very mature and modern until you show up with her in public, and everywhere you go, other dudes are hitting you with this:
I ain't saying we can't have our fun out here in these streets, but shaming men who prefer women who haven't been ran through is some third-wave feminist propaganda IMHO.
There are all kinds of women out here. Why choose to be with a Jezebel just to prove you're "secure"?
If your preference is Jezebels, then say that.
Plenty of women aren't ran through, so I'm not sure what being "secure" or "insecure" has to do with our individual preferences.
It's a weird stance for a man to have.
Like dating fat women just to prove you aren't "fat-phobic" or engaging in homosexual activities to prove you aren't "homophobic".
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And if you asked and she said 3, you’re still in the same situation, hence why it’s a pointless questionAll that sounds very mature and modern until you show up with her in public, and everywhere you go, other dudes are hitting you with this:
And if you asked and she said 3, you’re still in the same situation, hence why it’s a pointless question
If you have enough experience with women, then you don't have to ask.
Her character, opinions, and lived experiences should tell you what you need to know.
How does she dress, how does she carry herself, is she accountable, is she honest, what are her views on men, relationships, children, how does she feel about sex, sex workers, what is her background, is she a feminist, what are her beliefs on gender roles, how was her childhood, who are her friends, what music does she like, who does she spend her time around, who influences her, etc, etc.
The art of getting to know someone is becoming more and more rare.
Some folks lack discernment.
Some folks are just plain lazy.
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Bro, where the hell did i imply someone should date joints that been ran through? What are you talking about?
What are you talking about?Bro, where the hell did i imply someone should date joints that been ran through?
Try not to center yourself too much, Fam.
Nothing personal intended.
It's a general conversation open to anyone.
I could be wrong, but the conversation sounded like "body count doesn't matter unless you're insecure" or "it's pointless to ask women about their sexual experiences / how many other men they've had sex with because they'll just lie ".
What folks lie about says just as much about them as what they're honest about. We all lie and we all tell the truth...just not about the same things or at the same rate.
What folks believe says just as much about them as what they doubt. We all believe and we all doubt...again, just not the same things or at the same rate.
More Risk lying jezebel < lying virgin < honest jezebel < honest virgin < honest woman with similar sexual experiences/views Less Risk
It's not exactly "pointless" for the men who care about such matters, and caring about such matters doesn't have to equate to "insecurity".
A woman who reacts negatively to, or lies about, her past just did me a favor by removing herself from any serious conversations about our future.
For entertainment purposes only.
Past is prologue.
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frshstunna
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They bout to make it like Navy Yard…Nice, but generic and nothing really DC about it
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I don’t see what the issue is. Either get down with the program or get ran over. Big business is coming to that area whether you like it or not. Learn how to play…….. or learn toe to complain.
If you live over there, folks have had no issues with DC jail being over there. The only thing that’s really going to change is traffic over there on game days.
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Is it me or is that Hyundai Sonata commercial a bit too on the nose?
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Bring them back to RFK. Only people mad are just perpetual complainers who don't like seeing people enjoying themselves. Broccoli City Festival used to be in the parking lot for a while along with other concerts, so I don't know why someone is concerned about a handful more days of traffic and large crowds.
I'm more concerned about what happens with fedex field now. I know there was some money earmarked for developing it, but I don't have enough confidence in PG Development to get anything built fast. Its probably gonna sit empty for a while
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The work
Personal safety, let’s keep it real. Especially in this social media world
frshstunna
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They saying the team and county got a deal that the commanders supposed to take care of the demolition and redevelopment…But it’s just an MOU tho so it’s not binding…It’s gotta get thru the team 1st before PG even gonna be think about what to do with the old stadium so it’ll def be a min before anything happens at that site probly
Just build a park, some apartment complexes/townhouses and call it a day
frshstunna
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I don’t think it’s bout safety…The ppl that don’t wanna the stadium back in the city just concerned it’s gonna be more of the same type of gentrification that’s been going on for a min…Problem is that ship done already sailed, it’s never gonna be the “old dc”, at least no time soon…Might as well enjoy it too and get some of the benefits of whatever they build
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They'll be alright. And if they're already living closer to Benning I doubt a new stadium is more cause for concern about personal safety.
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They saying the team and county got a deal that the commanders supposed to take care of the demolition and redevelopment…But it’s just an MOU tho so it’s not binding…It’s gotta get thru the team 1st before PG even gonna be think about what to do with the old stadium so it’ll def be a min before anything happens at that site probly
Just build a park, some apartment complexes/townhouses and call it a day
No matter what PG County or the state of Maryland does with the Fed Ex site…..they are going to get it wrong, so it doesn’t matter to me what they do. Nothing but financial incompetence. We have 3 casinos……but yet have a budget deficit. Both PG and MD as a whole have some financial issues.
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I can bet you the that governor lost to a guy with dredlocks.
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I live 4 minutes from Fedex field... idk what they gonna do with it... but thats a lot of land ... i guess build more townhomes or luxury apartments... thats what they been doing
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This is something EVERY black person needs to be saying and shouting from the rooftops right now. OUR biggest challenges outside of broken homes is the issue with the kids right now, mostly our black boys.
Every young black male is dressed in all black with a mask on even with the temperature in the 80’s or more as if they are about to rob somebody. Our male image is shot to hell as a collective. Our appearance is bringing the negative energy that most are looking to get.
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Unpopular opinion, but I live in the area too and I don’t see the issue with them building more housing. Housing stock in the DMV as a whole is low and given the proximity to metro stations and 495, it makes sense. I don’t see them putting some type of town center since you already have Woodmore 5 mins away.
