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I feel like it boils down to them thinking they can't repeat the success they had once before.it's always been crazy to me, dudes are willing to carry multiple phones, construct elaborate alibis, change their commute, map out meticulous schedules, falsify work records, conduct Uber Eats counterintel, set laser tripwires...
...but not willing have a slightly awkward discussion with a person they find interesting early on in the process.
I believe the technical term is "hustling backwards."
I was once that person. Trust me when I say that's objectively false. You might not get that girl right away, but the knowledge and experience you gain along the way will lead you to someone even better.
I'm lucky though. Last time I tripped on shrooms the biggest takeaway I had from the experience is "I love the girl I'm with."
Dear god I hope she's reading this.
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