iblink
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I know most people say it's never a good idea, but hear me out.
What if you're dating a girl who does almost every thing right. She's down for you, is more than just a sex partner, and is an all around good girl to be with. She's all that you could possible want... someday. In my case, I had that girl but I wasn't ready for he same things as her. She wanted something serious, but I wanted to enjoy being young, playing the field, living the college life, etc, ect. She caught me cheating once or twice, stuck by me, and still I wanted to mess around. So I ended it on the premise that I clearly wasn't ready. So fast forward to the present day, I've been having the feeling that I've gotten it all out my system and I want something stable. Do I even bother trying to make things work with my ex, or is the relationship so damaged that not much can be salvaged.
We ended on rocky terms because of my being with other girls. Part of me feels like I put her through way to much to even expect a chance. Not sure what to do at this point. I told her how I felt the other day and she said something to the effect of not being sure if she could trust me which is completely understandable. Just not sure where to go from here.
What if you're dating a girl who does almost every thing right. She's down for you, is more than just a sex partner, and is an all around good girl to be with. She's all that you could possible want... someday. In my case, I had that girl but I wasn't ready for he same things as her. She wanted something serious, but I wanted to enjoy being young, playing the field, living the college life, etc, ect. She caught me cheating once or twice, stuck by me, and still I wanted to mess around. So I ended it on the premise that I clearly wasn't ready. So fast forward to the present day, I've been having the feeling that I've gotten it all out my system and I want something stable. Do I even bother trying to make things work with my ex, or is the relationship so damaged that not much can be salvaged.
We ended on rocky terms because of my being with other girls. Part of me feels like I put her through way to much to even expect a chance. Not sure what to do at this point. I told her how I felt the other day and she said something to the effect of not being sure if she could trust me which is completely understandable. Just not sure where to go from here.