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I've known this girl for a couple months through a friend. We've probably met four or five times but I wouldn't really call her a friend. Just a cool like minded chick who happened to be very attractive to me. I work out of town, and was scheduled to leave on Thursday morning. As one last good bye I decided to grab a drink with a few of my close buddies. It was going to be short and would afford me enough time to pack two weeks worth of things before leaving. I started getting texts from her that were rather forward. She was also at a bar, but planned on staying out much later than I.
Between the motivation from my buddies at the table, and her provocative messaging I decided to drive to her location, go with her to her house, smash all night, and leave as the sun came up.
I left the next morning for work in a mad scramble trying to pack and catch my flight. I was able to arrive successfully but the key here is I work way the hell up north and there is almost no connectivity. I told her that too. She knew it was extremely difficult to contact her.
On the day I got back I messaged her casually asking how she was doing. She said "Wow didnt expect to hear from you". I responded asking why she felt that and she didn't respond.
The friend of mine who introduced us saw her last night and she told him I was a coward for not sending a courtesy message. Said she felt we could be cool about all of this but I failed to do the expected.
I'm not even trying to smash anymore... but was this poor judgement on my part? It isn't my fault if the girl caught feelings, but I really do feel bad. I just don't want to walk away from this in a classes manner. In all honesty I'm not the kind of guy to do one night stands but as far as I'm concerned we MUTUALLY agreed to have sex and that's that.
CLIFFS
-smashed an acquaintance
-left for work for two weeks
-talked to her again after two weeks
-being called a coward for not sending a courtesy message
-confused, do not know how to proceed
IN4 YNS
I've known this girl for a couple months through a friend. We've probably met four or five times but I wouldn't really call her a friend. Just a cool like minded chick who happened to be very attractive to me. I work out of town, and was scheduled to leave on Thursday morning. As one last good bye I decided to grab a drink with a few of my close buddies. It was going to be short and would afford me enough time to pack two weeks worth of things before leaving. I started getting texts from her that were rather forward. She was also at a bar, but planned on staying out much later than I.
Between the motivation from my buddies at the table, and her provocative messaging I decided to drive to her location, go with her to her house, smash all night, and leave as the sun came up.
I left the next morning for work in a mad scramble trying to pack and catch my flight. I was able to arrive successfully but the key here is I work way the hell up north and there is almost no connectivity. I told her that too. She knew it was extremely difficult to contact her.
On the day I got back I messaged her casually asking how she was doing. She said "Wow didnt expect to hear from you". I responded asking why she felt that and she didn't respond.
The friend of mine who introduced us saw her last night and she told him I was a coward for not sending a courtesy message. Said she felt we could be cool about all of this but I failed to do the expected.
I'm not even trying to smash anymore... but was this poor judgement on my part? It isn't my fault if the girl caught feelings, but I really do feel bad. I just don't want to walk away from this in a classes manner. In all honesty I'm not the kind of guy to do one night stands but as far as I'm concerned we MUTUALLY agreed to have sex and that's that.
CLIFFS
-smashed an acquaintance
-left for work for two weeks
-talked to her again after two weeks
-being called a coward for not sending a courtesy message
-confused, do not know how to proceed
IN4 YNS