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12am Valentines day and I kicked her out..GOODBYE on PG10
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Don't think about her much man. It's just salt in the wound.
She chose a loser over a life, it says a lot about a person. You don't need her, if she's willing to throw her future with you away over a guy with no future is that really someone you want to spend your life with?
Your focus should be on the kid now, making sure s/he is doing well and will continue that.
Sorry about what happened, I'd be burning buildings and clapping shoulders until Christmas if that happened to me. Shows you have strength to get yourself through it.
Stay strong.
She chose a loser over a life, it says a lot about a person. You don't need her, if she's willing to throw her future with you away over a guy with no future is that really someone you want to spend your life with?
Your focus should be on the kid now, making sure s/he is doing well and will continue that.
Sorry about what happened, I'd be burning buildings and clapping shoulders until Christmas if that happened to me. Shows you have strength to get yourself through it.
Stay strong.
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Work it out son, for your kids sake.
she cheated on him bruh. eff that.
This
All that needs to be said
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If you go back OP, I could see why. But I would highly encourage you not to. There is a difference between cheating, and having an affair, shorty was having an all out affair on you. Although I neither are acceptable, one is way worse. My boy found out his girl was having an 3 month affair on him, and at the time he told me 3 months ago was right around the time I went to their engagement party. I could never look at the ***** the same, let alone how he felt.
I never seen hurt in a mans eyes like that, he really loved ole girl. Understanding the magnitude of his love, I couldn't utter a word about him moving on. Love is a powerful drug. Needless to say, he tried to work it out with her and she ended up moving out on him on my Birthday. He was heartbroken again. I will tell you what I should've told him then, OP, don't get back with her. Emotionally, she's checked out long before she probably even cheated on you. I doubt my mans had game like that, this was more than likely a case of familiarity, the case of the new guy who brings that one element to the table that you do not. She messed up, its on her now.
I never seen hurt in a mans eyes like that, he really loved ole girl. Understanding the magnitude of his love, I couldn't utter a word about him moving on. Love is a powerful drug. Needless to say, he tried to work it out with her and she ended up moving out on him on my Birthday. He was heartbroken again. I will tell you what I should've told him then, OP, don't get back with her. Emotionally, she's checked out long before she probably even cheated on you. I doubt my mans had game like that, this was more than likely a case of familiarity, the case of the new guy who brings that one element to the table that you do not. She messed up, its on her now.
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**** scary, I wanna believe in " the one" but real life stays happening.
Scary indeed.
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Scary indeed.
Man I'm one of the most paranoid dudes on the planet. Can't go 5 seconds without looking over my shoulder. Gotta see a therapist about that
But there have been a lot of stories just like this one recently. This causing me to act up.
Am I the only one who gets mad just thinking about this ish, but it happens all day everyday?
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Can't trust no chick, I walked into the room. Dude had his arm wrap on the chick shoulder and she was eyeing a brotha once I waked in and kept eyeing here and there in the waiting area, while he was busy playing temple run 2 I think he level up, to busy collecting coins when he should collecting her attention.
hope all is well op.
hope all is well op.
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OP
Just do me a favor bro. When you you read all these and see the ones about you being immature, or to give her another chance, or that you will regret this, disregard them. You did the right thing. Forget that horse **** about talking to her and whatnot. Take care of your son and move on
I'd also like to take the opportunity to make my monthly announcement. Use ******g protection folks.
Just do me a favor bro. When you you read all these and see the ones about you being immature, or to give her another chance, or that you will regret this, disregard them. You did the right thing. Forget that horse **** about talking to her and whatnot. Take care of your son and move on
I'd also like to take the opportunity to make my monthly announcement. Use ******g protection folks.
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imstillmike
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so no pics?
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Pics would secure your place in NT history OP.
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Scary indeed.
Truf.
OP I feel for ya boss. I didn't read the whole thread but you handled that like a boss but I know your a hurt ************ right now. It only gets better kid, do right by yourself first then move on. Cut as much contact as you can from her....don't answer ****....you gotta life these days on your terms.
I am so glad I'm single right now....these things are like horror stories.
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This is a bittersweet feeling
On one hand it's
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atleast you didnt stay with her. you seem like youll be fine7 year relationship and a child.
Reading txt messages for the past week. She cheats on me with a loser without a future. Txt message convos full of simpery.... I was too focus on school and my self so I didn't have time to act like the bish she had sex with. One time... thats one too many times for me.
woke her up at 12:00am with a surprise.... "Baby come to the living room its Valentines day!! I got something for you"
her "OMG what is it"
me "Its your things!... pack all your **** and get out of my house"
her "Im sorrrryyyyyy"
me "Maybe dude will feed you and take care of you like I did...
her *crying
Oh well fellas.... It is the beginning of a new chapter. Not sure if mad, sad, happy.... got a test tomorrow.
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So you end a 7 years relationship , one which you have a child from, and 7 mins later you make a thread on NT?
I'm sorry you sir are a loser/attention ***** and honestly she might have been looking elsewhere for a reason.
I'm sorry you sir are a loser/attention ***** and honestly she might have been looking elsewhere for a reason.
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Probably needed to vent. Venting is not the same as attention ho-ing.
From the situation presented to us I honestly don't see what OP could have been doing wrong.
I think you're trying too hard to be contradictory to a man who came to his NT brethren to vent.
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mplsdunk
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it was midnight, maybe he didn't want to wake his homies up. i've ranted on nt before about **** i never told my friends.
mplsdunk
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lol beat me by 5 seconds. but yeah agreed.
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^ Nah I just dont believe its real. So he pushed his girl out the door (apparently) and rushed right on to NT to make a thread? Seems VERY lame, screw the venting response especially as he claimed to be thinking this over for a week.
This is NT and we need proof and thus far there is none....so until it surfaces it wont believe it.
If real:
1) He kicked her out, rushes on NT to make a thread 7mins later = Lame
2) He kicked her and the kid out, rushes on NT to make a thread 7 mins later. = OP is a lame and a deadbeat.
If fake:
OP = Super lame.
This is NT and we need proof and thus far there is none....so until it surfaces it wont believe it.
If real:
1) He kicked her out, rushes on NT to make a thread 7mins later = Lame
2) He kicked her and the kid out, rushes on NT to make a thread 7 mins later. = OP is a lame and a deadbeat.
If fake:
OP = Super lame.
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He made thread around 4 AM, hours after kicking her out
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