"If you're wondering where you stand with someone, maybe it's time to start walking."
I might be paraphrasing that quote a little here but it's still applicable, and at the very least you'll have clarity. You may not get the answer or be in the position you wanted, but at least you'll have...
That feeling when you're torn between being unable - or is it unwilling? - to let go of good times with her and wanting to move on because those good times are all just memories now.
... Times like these I wish Lacuna, Inc. from "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" really did exist. Sign me...
No shame in that whatsoever, fam. Your relationships are the most important things in your life, and when one ends naturally it's going to suck and you're going to feel down. Give yourself time, and try not to beat yourself up too much.
Glad things have been picking up for you, though.
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People will tell you that loving an unrequited love doesn't matter, that the important thing is you put yourself out there and that you tried even if your feelings weren't reciprocated, but the reality is it sucks feeling so much for someone who doesn't feel the same way... regardless whether...
Anytime, fam. Bottom line is if you meet someone that means enough to you to make you want to take that chance, then the worst mistake you can do is NOT take it. So I'm glad you met someone in her. Just do what makes you happy, bro - that's all there is to it.
Hope it all works out.
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Not trying to be a buzzkill here but I did have two pieces of (admittedly unsolicited) advice for you:
1. Be careful about giving the sex too much weight, either consciously or unconsciously. I was with a chick that I knew was bad news...
Honestly fam, the moment you catch feelings for a chick is when it all comes crashing down. You can be the most charming cat in the world, making females laugh with small talk the first time you meet them, but that's precisely because you don't know a thing about them and they don't know a thing...
It's crazy that you posted those two pics - I hung out with Adam a little bit while he was here in TO last week doing a guest stint at my buddies' shop (it's where the pics were taken; the guy with the fresh skull / dragon back piece is a friend of mine).
To anybody in NYC looking for a good...
Yeah man. Feelings mess everything up.
From where I'm standing it seems like she's got the better hand right now - sounds like things aren't totally resolved with her bf / ex (and even if they are, things can always change in an instant). And you've definitely shown interest, so either way...
I know that feel, bro. Burned me bad, too.
This is one of those situations where you're better off killing any hope that she'll holla back one day. Easier said than done, though.
My man, you have to keep in mind that she's young so she doesn't really know what she wants at this point. I've been in the same boat, catching feelings for females that were in their early 20's, and it can be difficult remembering you're at two different points in your life (I'm assuming you're...
I keep focusing on how my life could be better instead of how it could be worse, and it's messing up my perspective and gratitude for all the things that I have going for me at the moment.
Also, that void / empty feeling that I can't get rid of no matter how much I throw at it is back.
No man, not wrong at all. As most people have said, it depends on what you're comfortable with and if her kids are giving you pause, then much respect to you for being honest about it and not going through the motions.
I personally couldn't see myself doing it either, but never say never...
I see where you're coming from but I don't think that's what the quote was going for, or at least that's not what I got from it. The way I interpreted it is that we oftentimes get so caught up in the idea of success that we don't give ourselves room for error, we don't forgive ourselves when we...
If time isn't a factor with the reservations then they really need to scrap the "Shoes will be awarded on a 'first respond, first serve' basis" line in their Twitter Rules page.
I wrestle with being "meh" about not getting a pair because they were ultra-exclusive and the chances of my getting...
I sent my DM for the Blacks in within 15 secs, 20 at the max, and still didn't get a RSVP Confirmation. So yeah, the guy who said that even if you're quick the volume will make it a wash is probably right.
Their being late with the times pissed me off but what really got me heated was their...