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frostythepoptart said:
Silly that I'm in here but I am.

There's a girl at work that I've gotten fond of. She's always cheesing at me, we've had some brief convos. she's semi knew been here for like 1.5 months.

Yo legit in my work 6 people got married and others are dating so :lol I doubt it would be a big issue. Plus I'm respectful, and would never do anything to the point where it ended there'd be hate.

I really want to do this but don't know how to approach it. Her desk is dead spot in the middle of the building. If it alk to her literally everyone can see me. I want to get lunch with her or something but the thing is between the busy day I feel like I haven't built upon it enough to bring her to lunch or just hang on the weekend, to grab a number, something.

I feel she might like me but I'm not sure. thoughts?

It's silly I'm posting here too because I know how to talk to girls man but I just don't know about this one
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do it slick elementary style...walk up to her desk slide her a note folded. saying lunch 12 30?
she'll then come seek u if yes
 
youngdoc said:
So I've been talking to this chick for 3 months. She's one of my good friend's wife's cousins

I met her early March when she is down visiting from up North. She seems cool but don't talk to her that much that night and don't even try to pull her # or anything. Within a day or two she hits me up on IG, we have some playful banter back and forth about sports teams and then I hit her fbook message so I don't have to ask for the # in public.

We hit it off and text and talk everyday for the next two weeks. She comes down the week after St. Patrick's Day with her family but we get to kick one night. We go to dinner and go back to my crib and we sleep together. The weekend before she came down I smashed some random off OKC and two days after she left I smashed one of my f buddies that I've been smashing since last July (girls 1 and 2) So although I did like her, I wasn't ready to settle down.

We keep talking everyday and she comes down again in Mid April but this time by herself so we spend 2 days together, have a great time in and out of the bedroom.

Continue to talk everyday and from time to time we talk about our futures (wanted me to meet the parents, mentioned how she could see herself having my babies) but we never commit and I remain single. She says "I know you're single and can do what you want but just don't let me know. It will hurt my feelings."

I'm headed to Vegas at the end of April and the Thursday before I post some throwback pics from Vegas on Instagram just b/c I'm excited about the trip and it's #tbt. She makes a little snide comment about the pics before apologizing and saying "I want you to do your thing in Vegas and I don't care what you post on Instagram"

I go to Vegas and do my thing (girls 3 and 4) - http://niketalk.com/t/293166/going-...help-me-with-my-experience/4470#post_17786422

The first night I'm there I do a good job of texting her and keeping her happy/not worried. Next day phone left in the room bc of pool party and that night don't text her much bc I'm with chick. She gets upset and says "I hate your texting tonight"

The following week I switch up services at work and my work life becomes hell (100 hr work weeks with very sick and dying patients). Me and chick get into constant stupid fights and one time she really pisses me off so I post a Vegas pic with two girls on IG (relatively harmless one, not any of the ones in my post above)

Predictably she gets upset and ends up canceling a trip to visit me. She asks if I slept with the chick in the picture and I said no. I end up deciding to kick it with this girl who I used to talk to/sleep with but had been gone to MIA for a few months. End up sleeping with her (girl #5)

We continue to bicker a lot though as the stress from work has made me an unhappy a-hole. Last Sunday night we get into a huge argument and she insinuates she's getting tired of it and then I say we're done after cursing at her on the phone. I then post some more Vegas pics on IG as well as pic of me with girl #5. The next day we talk and both parties apologize but stuff isn't right and the timing couldn't be worse as I'm flying up North on that Thursday. Originally I was supposed to stay with her but after the fight I got a hotel and although we hung out a few times this past weekend, stuff was just awkward and we barely even kissed.

So today she ends up saying she doesn't think she can do this anymore and I say I agree, the timing is just off. We go back and forth and argue a little bit and at the end I end up saying "I'm sorry I lied to you. I did sleep with those girls in Vegas and a few more down here". She says "really?" and say "Yes, really". She tears up and then gets off the phone


Cliffs
- Meet chick early March and hit off quickly, we talk everyday and sleep together quickly
- everything goes great the first two months, have feelings for her but can't give up other yambs. she has strong feelings (mentions meeting parents and how she could see herself having my babies)
- go to vegas and do my thing after two months, put some stuff on social media to piss her off after a fight
- last month is awful, we get into a huge fight, put more stuff on social media, end up breaking it off but at the same time admitting I smashed all these chicks
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Shoulda kept her in the rotation for when she moves down here...Already told u this :{
 
Ecook0808 said:
youngdoc said:
So I've been talking to this chick for 3 months. She's one of my good friend's wife's cousins

I met her early March when she is down visiting from up North. She seems cool but don't talk to her that much that night and don't even try to pull her # or anything. Within a day or two she hits me up on IG, we have some playful banter back and forth about sports teams and then I hit her fbook message so I don't have to ask for the # in public.

We hit it off and text and talk everyday for the next two weeks. She comes down the week after St. Patrick's Day with her family but we get to kick one night. We go to dinner and go back to my crib and we sleep together. The weekend before she came down I smashed some random off OKC and two days after she left I smashed one of my f buddies that I've been smashing since last July (girls 1 and 2) So although I did like her, I wasn't ready to settle down.

We keep talking everyday and she comes down again in Mid April but this time by herself so we spend 2 days together, have a great time in and out of the bedroom.

Continue to talk everyday and from time to time we talk about our futures (wanted me to meet the parents, mentioned how she could see herself having my babies) but we never commit and I remain single. She says "I know you're single and can do what you want but just don't let me know. It will hurt my feelings."

I'm headed to Vegas at the end of April and the Thursday before I post some throwback pics from Vegas on Instagram just b/c I'm excited about the trip and it's #tbt. She makes a little snide comment about the pics before apologizing and saying "I want you to do your thing in Vegas and I don't care what you post on Instagram"

I go to Vegas and do my thing (girls 3 and 4) - http://niketalk.com/t/293166/going-...help-me-with-my-experience/4470#post_17786422

The first night I'm there I do a good job of texting her and keeping her happy/not worried. Next day phone left in the room bc of pool party and that night don't text her much bc I'm with chick. She gets upset and says "I hate your texting tonight"

The following week I switch up services at work and my work life becomes hell (100 hr work weeks with very sick and dying patients). Me and chick get into constant stupid fights and one time she really pisses me off so I post a Vegas pic with two girls on IG (relatively harmless one, not any of the ones in my post above)

Predictably she gets upset and ends up canceling a trip to visit me. She asks if I slept with the chick in the picture and I said no. I end up deciding to kick it with this girl who I used to talk to/sleep with but had been gone to MIA for a few months. End up sleeping with her (girl #5)

We continue to bicker a lot though as the stress from work has made me an unhappy a-hole. Last Sunday night we get into a huge argument and she insinuates she's getting tired of it and then I say we're done after cursing at her on the phone. I then post some more Vegas pics on IG as well as pic of me with girl #5. The next day we talk and both parties apologize but stuff isn't right and the timing couldn't be worse as I'm flying up North on that Thursday. Originally I was supposed to stay with her but after the fight I got a hotel and although we hung out a few times this past weekend, stuff was just awkward and we barely even kissed.

So today she ends up saying she doesn't think she can do this anymore and I say I agree, the timing is just off. We go back and forth and argue a little bit and at the end I end up saying "I'm sorry I lied to you. I did sleep with those girls in Vegas and a few more down here". She says "really?" and say "Yes, really". She tears up and then gets off the phone


Cliffs
- Meet chick early March and hit off quickly, we talk everyday and sleep together quickly
- everything goes great the first two months, have feelings for her but can't give up other yambs. she has strong feelings (mentions meeting parents and how she could see herself having my babies)
- go to vegas and do my thing after two months, put some stuff on social media to piss her off after a fight
- last month is awful, we get into a huge fight, put more stuff on social media, end up breaking it off but at the same time admitting I smashed all these chicks
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Shoulda kept her in the rotation for when she moves down here...Already told u this :{
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Who knows when she's moving down here and it wasn't going to work. Too much drama. She's not a rotation type chick anyway. Once she moved down here she would have wanted me to lock it down, she already wanted me to lock it down before we started fighting.
 
American white girl slid me the digits today... Without me asking .

110 lbs, flat butt, no teddies...
 
Been following this thread over a year but I wanna kno how to approach this w/o screwing up my chance

Tryna approach this girl Ive seen a few times on campus thick hispanic chick but only time I see her is when Im leaving once class finished and she bout to enter the building. Idk what ***** to do like should I just go up to her randomly when she enters and see whaddup with everyone in and out no dambs given? Ive ran into her in the hallways but always looking on my phone so I miss out on those opportunities when I look back and it's scarce. I aint running back to catch up to her. Aint gonna show that thirst. So what I do? My boy be like talk her up when she aint busy but I aint see her that often.
 
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RaptorsUndefeated said:
Been following this thread over a year but I wanna kno how to approach this w/o screwing up my chance

Tryna approach this girl Ive seen a few times on campus thick hispanic chick but only time I see her is when Im leaving once class finished and she bout to enter the building. Idk what ***** to do like should I just go up to her randomly when she enters and see whaddup with everyone in and out no dambs given? Ive ran into her in the hallways but always looking on my phone so I miss out on those opportunities when I look back and it's scarce. I aint running back to catch up to her. Aint gonna show that thirst. So what I do? My boy be like talk her up when she aint busy but I aint see her that often.
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Recognize the times in the past that u have seen her and just keep looking. Can't care if she says no or doesn't give u a chance...At least u tried.

Ask a simple question like hey where is the closest starbucks??
When she responds say oh I don't really care, I just thought u were adorable...and go from there :smokin
 
Welp.

Im officially taken by the girl i been talking about on here..

:lol

*Shoulder Shrug* I aint eem mad doe. Consistent poon :hat

But i said it many times.. Shes a cool w/ a lot of things going for her. Everytime Ive hung out with her (which has been a lot!) has been fun! We get along pretty well.
 
th3answ3r said:
forget what I said above. this ***** played me, she been lying teh whole damn time. My pride just took over the situation, Im done with thie *** I dont take that kind of bs from anybody
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Yea **** that broad...you cant be worried bout these chicks mane
 
Peep Game said:
^Please tell me she's a 10/10 in the face
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but still...that's pushing it

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not a ounce my g?

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youngdoc said:
Ecook0808 said:
youngdoc said:
So I've been talking to this chick for 3 months. She's one of my good friend's wife's cousins

I met her early March when she is down visiting from up North. She seems cool but don't talk to her that much that night and don't even try to pull her # or anything. Within a day or two she hits me up on IG, we have some playful banter back and forth about sports teams and then I hit her fbook message so I don't have to ask for the # in public.

We hit it off and text and talk everyday for the next two weeks. She comes down the week after St. Patrick's Day with her family but we get to kick one night. We go to dinner and go back to my crib and we sleep together. The weekend before she came down I smashed some random off OKC and two days after she left I smashed one of my f buddies that I've been smashing since last July (girls 1 and 2) So although I did like her, I wasn't ready to settle down.

We keep talking everyday and she comes down again in Mid April but this time by herself so we spend 2 days together, have a great time in and out of the bedroom.

Continue to talk everyday and from time to time we talk about our futures (wanted me to meet the parents, mentioned how she could see herself having my babies) but we never commit and I remain single. She says "I know you're single and can do what you want but just don't let me know. It will hurt my feelings."

I'm headed to Vegas at the end of April and the Thursday before I post some throwback pics from Vegas on Instagram just b/c I'm excited about the trip and it's #tbt. She makes a little snide comment about the pics before apologizing and saying "I want you to do your thing in Vegas and I don't care what you post on Instagram"

I go to Vegas and do my thing (girls 3 and 4) - http://niketalk.com/t/293166/going-...help-me-with-my-experience/4470#post_17786422

The first night I'm there I do a good job of texting her and keeping her happy/not worried. Next day phone left in the room bc of pool party and that night don't text her much bc I'm with chick. She gets upset and says "I hate your texting tonight"

The following week I switch up services at work and my work life becomes hell (100 hr work weeks with very sick and dying patients). Me and chick get into constant stupid fights and one time she really pisses me off so I post a Vegas pic with two girls on IG (relatively harmless one, not any of the ones in my post above)

Predictably she gets upset and ends up canceling a trip to visit me. She asks if I slept with the chick in the picture and I said no. I end up deciding to kick it with this girl who I used to talk to/sleep with but had been gone to MIA for a few months. End up sleeping with her (girl #5)

We continue to bicker a lot though as the stress from work has made me an unhappy a-hole. Last Sunday night we get into a huge argument and she insinuates she's getting tired of it and then I say we're done after cursing at her on the phone. I then post some more Vegas pics on IG as well as pic of me with girl #5. The next day we talk and both parties apologize but stuff isn't right and the timing couldn't be worse as I'm flying up North on that Thursday. Originally I was supposed to stay with her but after the fight I got a hotel and although we hung out a few times this past weekend, stuff was just awkward and we barely even kissed.

So today she ends up saying she doesn't think she can do this anymore and I say I agree, the timing is just off. We go back and forth and argue a little bit and at the end I end up saying "I'm sorry I lied to you. I did sleep with those girls in Vegas and a few more down here". She says "really?" and say "Yes, really". She tears up and then gets off the phone


Cliffs
- Meet chick early March and hit off quickly, we talk everyday and sleep together quickly
- everything goes great the first two months, have feelings for her but can't give up other yambs. she has strong feelings (mentions meeting parents and how she could see herself having my babies)
- go to vegas and do my thing after two months, put some stuff on social media to piss her off after a fight
- last month is awful, we get into a huge fight, put more stuff on social media, end up breaking it off but at the same time admitting I smashed all these chicks
Click to expand...

Shoulda kept her in the rotation for when she moves down here...Already told u this :{
Click to expand...

Who knows when she's moving down here and it wasn't going to work. Too much drama. She's not a rotation type chick anyway. Once she moved down here she would have wanted me to lock it down, she already wanted me to lock it down before we started fighting.
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:{ Sounds eerily similar, timing is a ************. I know that right girl wrong time feel.
 
My theory is that between the ages of 18-24 you're in the period of discovering yourself and figuring out who you want to be. You're figuring out what you like and you don't like..and chances are, the same things you liked at age 18 you probably don't like at age 21, 22, or whatever. You experience different things, and so on.

I feel like I'm still figuring out who I want to be, at age 20. I don't have my career set yet, my taste in women or clothing changes every damn month. Why would I be with a woman who could potentially stunt that growth?

I know if someone finds the right girl it'll make them forget about all that, but so far in life I feel like it's not a good idea to look for anything more than temporary things with women.
 
agreed, and I will just add that your 20s are your selfish years. don't get wifed up...enjoy all you can, travel, LIVE IT UP!!
 
frostythepoptart said:
Silly that I'm in here but I am.

There's a girl at work that I've gotten fond of. She's always cheesing at me, we've had some brief convos. she's semi knew been here for like 1.5 months.

Yo legit in my work 6 people got married and others are dating so :lol I doubt it would be a big issue. Plus I'm respectful, and would never do anything to the point where it ended there'd be hate.

I really want to do this but don't know how to approach it. Her desk is dead spot in the middle of the building. If it alk to her literally everyone can see me. I want to get lunch with her or something but the thing is between the busy day I feel like I haven't built upon it enough to bring her to lunch or just hang on the weekend, to grab a number, something.

I feel she might like me but I'm not sure. thoughts?

It's silly I'm posting here too because I know how to talk to girls man but I just don't know about this one
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same situation except the chick sits at the reception desk smh
im thinking maybe at a corporate event...
 
AntBanks81 said:
agreed, and I will just add that your 20s are your selfish years. don't get wifed up...enjoy all you can, travel, LIVE IT UP!!
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this.
I was in a 4 year relationship from 18-21. we break up....I go out into that 21 and older real world u meet so many chicks like damn... I'm compatible with many chicks. I've traveled to asia for 2 years and even met chicks there from around the world and felt like I coulda wifed some of them...

and this is why I will never believe in that bullcrap fantasy of the one / soulmate.
almost 7 billion people in the world. majority women.
you will never convince me that only one is specially designed and designated for me.
doesn't mean I don't believe in settling down. just means as long as I'm happy with chick we can make it work.
27 now just left an emotionally draining chick. who just can't accept being happy. she been **** on so much she didn't know how to handle some one who WASN'T doing her wrong.
but she asked me why I don't believe in the one. then told me that was a deal breaker that I didn't. .....
lmao silly rabbit life isn't a disney movie.
only reason cinderella got the prince is cuz she went to a ball caked up in make up shook her *** a little and dude fell in lust. stupid
/end rant
 
There is this chick that works in the same building as I do. We pulled up to the parking lot at the same time both yesterday and today

this morning we were on the elevator together :smokin
 
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USABasketball08 said:
My theory is that between the ages of 18-24 you're in the period of discovering yourself and figuring out who you want to be. You're figuring out what you like and you don't like..and chances are, the same things you liked at age 18 you probably don't like at age 21, 22, or whatever. You experience different things, and so on.

I feel like I'm still figuring out who I want to be, at age 20. I don't have my career set yet, my taste in women or clothing changes every damn month. Why would I be with a woman who could potentially stunt that growth?

I know if someone finds the right girl it'll make them forget about all that, but so far in life I feel like it's not a good idea to look for anything more than temporary things with women.
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You living the right way young fella :hat
 
Tdogg2k said:
please don't take that girls virginity.
unkess u plan on dating her.
1 of 2 things will happen.
she'll go in a deep depression and beat herself up about it.
or
she will become a freak (which can be good or bad) but either way she'll hate herself at first
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I know.

I have no intentions of anything past sex with her and if our little fool around got her feeling ashamed, I'm stopping it there.
 
oidreez said:
so how long was it from when you met her to having her naked on top of you?
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About three months after meeting her in class. A month after starting talking to her personally.
 
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