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yes. one person’s misery is better than two miserable people. But there’s no perfect relationship. Holidays sometimes bring couples closer. why praise misery? She’s hella negative and i see why she’s solo dolo
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How is she “praising misery”?
I had some of the best times of my life when I was single.
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Women can’t be single for long periods of time like men, they will go crazy.
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Women can’t be single for long periods of time like men, they will go crazy.
Lol nah men just bottle it in and have a heart attack at 41.
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used to talk to this chick few years back and we were clearly feeling each other. Sadly things didn’t work out and we went out separate ways.
she got a man but then they broke up recently.
last Thurs a mutual (female) friend of ours invited us to a concert so we had dinner and went to a small venue concert. We vibed well at dinner and before the concert started. She kept asking me about my relationship status, kept tryna predict what kind of girls I like, asking me why I don’t like her instagram posts (surprised she even noticed that)
I end up dming her later and it’s now the driest **** ever and she’s taking hours to even reply.
move on or keep trying in the DMs?
she got a man but then they broke up recently.
last Thurs a mutual (female) friend of ours invited us to a concert so we had dinner and went to a small venue concert. We vibed well at dinner and before the concert started. She kept asking me about my relationship status, kept tryna predict what kind of girls I like, asking me why I don’t like her instagram posts (surprised she even noticed that)
I end up dming her later and it’s now the driest **** ever and she’s taking hours to even reply.
move on or keep trying in the DMs?
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If she's interested, she'll make the time for you.
I'd play it cool for now, but if this carries on for more than a day or two it's time to move on. There's too many women out there to be wasting your time on these games.
I'd play it cool for now, but if this carries on for more than a day or two it's time to move on. There's too many women out there to be wasting your time on these games.
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Keep it pushing. She noticed that you stopped liking her stuff, so she wanted to see if you lost interest or were faking it. CYou also mentioned that she just broke up with her man, so she is testing the waters to see what's out there. She more than likely still got feelings for them. We don't know if you approached the situation in a friendly manner when dm'ed her. If you hit her up on some "when we linking again" and she's stalling you out, it's best to keep it pushing.
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bet. forgot to mention that she was taking hella pictures of me during the concert too tf.
I didnt ask her out in the DMs. i actually thanked her for driving me back to the metro (she and our mutual friend insisted)
guess i gotta keep it moving
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Why would you dm her when she was right in your face all night? She's not giving you action because she thinks you're a lame now. She was throwing you the P underhand like soft toss baseball
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Did you hit the first go round?
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I feel like that's a question we already know the answer to.
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She wants the attention and validation from you. You do not have to give it to her
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Nah man
. She wanted him to hit and he dropped the ball. Now he's dead to her
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you right. my dumbass fumbled it. I think with her friend being there (mutual but not really) got to my head for some reason.
just leave her *** on read and move on or should I try to recover. shes replied back throwing jokes about something from the concert in the DM but I aint open it
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Now that I'm retired from the dating world I can see the two things I didn't realize in retrospect:
1. If you think you're not being assertive enough, you aren't. Stop hemming and hawing and just commit. Best case scenario it will save you a lot of time and keep her interested. Worst case scenario you're right back where you were before.
2. Don't bother sitting and pondering about if they like you back. If they like you back, you'll know. Never met a person that was really feeling someone that wouldn't make the time for them.
1. If you think you're not being assertive enough, you aren't. Stop hemming and hawing and just commit. Best case scenario it will save you a lot of time and keep her interested. Worst case scenario you're right back where you were before.
2. Don't bother sitting and pondering about if they like you back. If they like you back, you'll know. Never met a person that was really feeling someone that wouldn't make the time for them.
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Ask her out. If she's throwing it at you again then bring her home and handle business
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Bruh in pain
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Oh damn. Nope.
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Just reading that title she is correct and some men can say the same thing. If having my **** together was the only requirement for finding a partner, I would be swimming in women
I dont think having your **** together is a top priority when men are looking for women.
I cant force a woman to like me because I have a 800 credit score and make good money
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(1) REVOLT x Michelle Obama: The Cross-Generational Conversation - YouTube
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Doesn't matter who you are or what you do, women will find something to ***** about
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Doesn't matter who you are or what you do, women will find something to ***** about
Which women?
Women in general?
Women on the internet?
Woman you are with?
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Yes
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