Porn does a lot more harm than good and is a serious problem

Rumor was marcus had an STD and was infecting other performers without telling them
that wasnt just a rumor
what he was doing was delaying getting tested (as they get tested damn near every week)
knowing he had something
and still working - which i believe was the motivation, to keep working



then the cherry on top
he manipulated (or tried to at least) the test results at some point
wasnt good at all for his rep
it wasnt a typical std either, but it was infectious


I heard this yeeears ago
some pod had a female pronstar on breaking this down
 
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Damn is the whole pod like that? Lord Jamar constantly interrupting with unfunny bs. Godfrey talked about it solo on his own pod along with sleeping with a lot of women and just generally being an ahole. Sounds like it lead him right into Jehovah Witness though.

 
Damn is the whole pod like that? Lord Jamar constantly interrupting with unfunny bs. Godfrey talked about it solo on his own pod along with sleeping with a lot of women and just generally being an ahole. Sounds like it lead him right into Jehovah Witness though.


Never really listened to his pod but as someone who struggles with porn and sex addiction myself this was a great episode and I can relate to everything dude talked about on here. I wouldn’t get so hung up on him becoming a Jehovah’s Witness. A lot of people in recovery go into 12 step programs and there is a spiritual aspect to it, not necessarily religious, the individual gets to decide that. I definitely have a better understanding of my higher power thanks to the program but by no means would I consider myself religious. Everyone is different though and if becoming a JW can get him away from compulsively watching porn and objectifying women and it helps him to stop being a terrible person, then good for him.
 
Never really listened to his pod but as someone who struggles with porn and sex addiction myself this was a great episode and I can relate to everything dude talked about on here. I wouldn’t get so hung up on him becoming a Jehovah’s Witness. A lot of people in recovery go into 12 step programs and there is a spiritual aspect to it, not necessarily religious, the individual gets to decide that. I definitely have a better understanding of my higher power thanks to the program but by no means would I consider myself religious. Everyone is different though and if becoming a JW can get him away from compulsively watching porn and objectifying women and it helps him to stop being a terrible person, then good for him.
Does the porn cause you to objectify women?
 
Does the porn cause you to objectify women?
Short answer: yes.

It’s a topic i come back to a lot with my therapist, kind of a case of what came first the chicken or the egg. I unfortunately learned to objectify women from my dad at a young age before I was really watching porn like that. So add that learned behavior to years of heavily watching porn (20+ years) and all these categories they got now and stuff, porn has definitely taken my objectification to another level.

Though I’m doing much better now I’m still not completely sober from porn. But with that said my therapist has said that with more sobriety, I will most likely stop objectifying as much.
 
Short answer: yes.

It’s a topic i come back to a lot with my therapist, kind of a case of what came first the chicken or the egg. I unfortunately learned to objectify women from my dad at a young age before I was really watching porn like that. So add that learned behavior to years of heavily watching porn (20+ years) and all these categories they got now and stuff, porn has definitely taken my objectification to another level.

Though I’m doing much better now I’m still not completely sober from porn. But with that said my therapist has said that with more sobriety, I will most likely stop objectifying as much.
Thank you for sharing.
 
Wait as a grown *** man Godfrey converted to JW?

:lol: :smh:
It's not unusual, there's a lot of former addicts that turn to religion to handle the heavy lifting when they're at the end of their rope. Works for some, some crash and burn because they never actually did any internal work. Passing the buck and pretending like it's gone won't always work.
 
what makes someone an addict to porn? Watching everyday? Few times a week? I ask because Godfrey said he fapping 3 times day
 
what makes someone an addict to porn? Watching everyday? Few times a week? I ask because Godfrey said he fapping 3 times day
In the 12 step program I’m in, we define it as an addiction when it becomes unmanageable. So if you’re watching so much porn that you neglect other areas in your life as in you’re late to your job because you’re watching porn, or you’re watching it at work, choosing porn over spending time with family or friends, skipping meals cause you’re watching porn, failing school etc etc, then you probably got an issue. Some people watch porn when they’re horny and get their nut off in 15-20 minutes then go about their day then that’s probably fine and is probably as close to a healthy porn habit that you can have:

But porn addicts watch porn for hours on end, it becomes compulsive. When i was in the throes of my addiction, most times I wanted to watch porn it wasn’t even because I was horny, there was just that compulsive behavior there and I had to watch. I was watching so much porn that I couldn’t even get hard while having sex with women in real life because the porn had hi jacked my brain, women in real life weren’t doing it for me. When it got to that level for me that’s when I knew I was addicted, I realized I was addicted when I was 22, i joined a 12 step program for it at 25-26 and started seeing a therapist that specializes in sex/porn addiction when I was 28 and have been working at it heavily since then. On our first session she made me take this test to see how bad my addiction was. My results came back and it suggested I join a rehab, unfortunately those things are super expensive and I haven’t been able to join so for now I just do therapy and go to a meeting pretty much every day.
 
Damn is the whole pod like that? Lord Jamar constantly interrupting with unfunny bs. Godfrey talked about it solo on his own pod along with sleeping with a lot of women and just generally being an ahole. Sounds like it lead him right into Jehovah Witness though.



Never really got into flicks like that. I think the threat of a virus back in the day kept me at bay, plus making flicks much better alternative. I really didn’t realize it was that many dudes out here stuck on Pr0n. Thought it was damn near desensitized now because of how it is everywhere.

But overall, what Godfrey was saying about the man that he’s been, is super relatable and super real. I think a lot more of us need to be honest in that way, that he was in THIS video on his podcast.

The **** with Lord Jamar was pure clown rey. You can tell Godfrey wanted to talk about something real, and Lord Jamar with some incredibly childish, stupid m, unfunny jokes..that aren’t even related :lol. Godfrey is talking about buying porn in the 90s from vhs/dvd shops…and Lord Jamar is making jokes about how easy it is for Godfrey to access porn because of the internet today, like “this generation”….not realizing Godfrey is relating to an experience from the exact same time Lord Jamar is talking about sneaking peeks on the hot box :lol :{

But yeah, I’m rocking with what Godfrey was saying overall in that clip. That’s real.
 
Y’all don’t look at porn at least once a day?
techincally via IG yes :lol
For sure a trigger
nah its more than a trigger, i think it legit is porn.
I wonder if they will have a feature where u can say i don't want to see any of that content, i think about ti and its pretty wild i can see a naked women on the app and it does nothing to make me hard . should it? idk its a weird place :lol
 
It's not unusual, there's a lot of former addicts that turn to religion to handle the heavy lifting when they're at the end of their rope. Works for some, some crash and burn because they never actually did any internal work. Passing the buck and pretending like it's gone won't always work.
Two things, I tend to look at certain addictions differently so I didn't even have PA in the same realm as say AA or DA. So the idea of turning to religion for that seemed wild to me. But I know the steps and I get the whole acknowledging a higher power part of it all

The other thing, being Jehovah witness seems to be one of the more out there or for lack of better words extreme choices when one decides to convert to a religion (not the most extreme religion but its on the list when you look at what it requires).

Y’all don’t look at porn at least once a day?
15 years ago no. Porn literally was watched just to jerk off.

Now with twitter and IG, I unintentionally see porn like 10× a day.
 
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Yeah he could do worse. Can't say i've met a JW who was a bad person, however they tend to hide the more negative aspects of their religion. I'm not built for that level of control.
 
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