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- Dec 27, 2004
Ok so I've been talking to this girl for about 8 months now, we have talked just about every day and she has been falling in love with me..Problem is I don't think it is going to go anywhere (she has 2 kids) and she lives out of my state and plans on moving to my state for school..The thing is I don't think its only for school she is moving here, she wants to be with me and I have told her that she needs to make sure she is only coming here for school, and not me but she insists that it is only for school..Anyway, I have tried telling her me and her is not going to work out and stopped talking to her for like 2 weeks...Next thing you know she made a trip here (it was planned way before we stopped talking) we started talking again and had sex
so once again I was stuck in a situation where she was feeling me more than I was feeling her..So fast forward to this week, I basically cut her off cold turkey, I don't answer her calls, texts, nothing...I am trying to get out of her life and stop leading her on and this is the only way I think its possible..I know its a cowards way out, but I feel like she will keep clinging on to me no matter how much I try to break up with her..Do you think I'm going about this the right way?