NT you've never failed me.

[mrgrapes85]

So back in early October, I met this chick. She's a freshman at the local university.

We started kickin' it and things were great after like two weeks, but then we didn't see each other for like a month and randomly she hits me up again.

We start kickin' it, she starts staying over and we start getting close and what not and about a month passes. We hadn't determined what we were yet, as far as a relationship.

She's definitely feelin' it and is pushing for us to be together, but I was just playin' it cool, I don't know why, but I just didn't want to rush.

Well, last Thursday we go out to eat, it's chill cause my roommate is with us eating too and they get to talking about hella deep relationship stuff and after dinner she gets emotional and wants to go home.

I'm talkin' it out with her in the car and she starts crying cause she misses her ex that broke up with her a few months back. At first I was like aw hail naw, but then I was like nah it's whatever. So I dropped her off and she was texting me that night like "I'm sorry for acting this way"

Well here it is,

The next day she texts me that her ex hit her up to come over and he got his, if you know what I mean. If you don't, she gave it up to him A.K.A. they had sex.

The cool thing about her, is that she was honest with me, or at least it seemed like it...

She got mad at me because I wasn't being understanding enough haha I was like you trippin' I'm done with this!! and she told me to not talk to her...

Now the weekend has passed, she's tried to call me, sent me a snapchat and just now has sent me a text.

If you was in the same situation, would you give shawty another chance?

I mean, it wasn't like she cheated or something, we hadn't committed yet.

Should I respond or just let it go?

 

[flesh prince]

 

[flesh prince]

in all seriousness

its your fault for dealing with her for two months and not making any type of move, sexual or even just letting her know what you tryna do

you friendzoned yourself b

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

The ex smashes with ease while she's making you go through hoops and you haven't hit it yet..

 

[mangudai954]

First of all take that picture down asap.

Second, cut it off she's obviously not over here ex this will continue to happen especially since they just had sex.

 

[justicedivine]

The next day she texts me that her ex hit her up to come over and he got his, if you know what I mean. If you don't, she gave it up to him A.K.A. they had sex.

Fam, thanks for clearing this up, I had no idea what you were talking about. Anyway my advice is to move on with the quickness

 

[mrgrapes85]

in all seriousness

its your fault for dealing with her for two months and not making any type of move, sexual or even just letting her know what you tryna do

you friendzoned yourself b

What made you think I didn't smash?!

haha y'all are hella savage. I know what to do now, thanks bruhs

 

[fousey]

Fam, thanks for clearing this up, I had no idea what you were talking about. Anyway my advice is to move on with the quickness

hahahahaha. this response had me dead.

damn this thread reminds me of my many when i was younger. lol.

anyways, in the months she stayed with you and what not, you DIDN'T smash? clarify that.

and if i were you, i wouldn't give her a chance as far as relationships go. but if you want to smash and have no feelings involved, why not. but don't do anything extra for her. she's attached to her ex and he can have her at the drop of a hat. but if YOU wanna feel vindicated (not the word but sounded right) and make yourself feel good about the situation.. smash once and never reply to her again. just cut her off.

btw. take her pic down.

 

[CrownRoyalDaddy]

Nah man. The worst thing you can do is get deep with somebody while they want to be with somebody else.

A chick gotta be out of all serious relationships for at least a year before I would think about being serious with her. The fact that she had sex with somebody she was in a relationship with resets that timer. And she still having breakdowns over him? Nah.

She mustve gotten truly hurt. At least shes honest, which is a rare quality. You could still kick it but id let her know its gonna be a long time before it gets serious.

Alternatively, use this as a spot where shes vulnerable and fiending for you and smash till youre bored of it.

 

[Kaleo15]

First of all take that picture down asap.

Second, cut it off she's obviously not over here ex this will continue to happen especially since they just had sex.

Picture?

What was the picture of?

 

[Fozz]

Well, you have expectations in the relationship with her. I'd hit her up and let her know. If she's too confused with her current situation, then, it's time to say 'peace'. Don't waste your time and be a friendzoned.

 

[frank mucus]

What do you want to do. If you pursue a relationship you'd just turn into a ****old. And no one wants to ksteezy with some other dudes kids unless they're about that ****old life

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

I don't get **** so I don't know what to tell you fam.

 

[mrgrapes85]

Nah man. The worst thing you can do is get deep with somebody while they want to be with somebody else.

A chick gotta be out of all serious relationships for at least a year before I would think about being serious with her. The fact that she had sex with somebody she was in a relationship with resets that timer. And she still having breakdowns over him? Nah.

She mustve gotten truly hurt. At least shes honest, which is a rare quality. You could still kick it but id let her know its gonna be a long time before it gets serious.

Alternatively, use this as a spot where shes vulnerable and fiending for you and smash till youre bored of it.

Legit advice, thanks man.

 

[ksteezy]

Bro you just a rebound, something to pass time while she still hung up on her ex....seems like you will easily catch feelings hence this thread, so my advice is to abort and avoid a situation where you will be left hurt.

 

[htg designs]

decide if you just want her guts or if you want a relationship.
guts? keeps her on a string. she belongs to you, her ex, and everyone else.
relationship? keep it moving

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[Kaleo15]

First of all take that picture down asap.

Second, cut it off she's obviously not over here ex this will continue to happen especially since they just had sex.

Picture?

What was the picture of?

 

[flyny]

The worst type of girl to be with is a girl who is still feeling her ex. Avoid at all costs, B

Walk away now with a few months being wasted, instead of wasting more time and walking away later.

That chick ain't yours, you might've cuffed that girl, might've said you loved that girl, but she belongs to the game, and when she's with her ex he lets her do her thing

 

[eracism]

The next day she texts me that her ex hit her up to come over and he got his, if you know what I mean. If you don't, she gave it up to him A.K.A. they had sex.

This had me weak LOL

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

First of all take that picture down asap.

Second, cut it off she's obviously not over here ex this will continue to happen especially since they just had sex.

Picture?

What was the picture of?

Picture of her..

 

[Kaleo15]

First of all take that picture down asap.

Second, cut it off she's obviously not over here ex this will continue to happen especially since they just had sex.

Picture?

What was the picture of?

Picture of her..

And somebody actually asked for it to be taken down?

Damn Niketalk done changed!

 

[Master Zik]

Whether you smashed or not, yall never made it clear on what the relationship was and if she was your girl exclusively. She was pushing for it and you were playing it cool. So really she got the right to **** who she wants. It was a privilege for her to even tell you she let the ex get some again.

You really got ask yourself and think hard about what type of chick she is and if you really want a relationship with her. Also ask yourself had yall made it official would she have still let the ex smash for ol times sake? That's key to figure out if she's a cheater but she seemed guilty enough to tell when she really didn't have to so is that a pro or a con to you?

Anyway you seemed nonchalant in your OP about your relationship with her so maybe you don't really want anything serious right now.



Oh yeah, pm me the pic of her. I totally understand why ppl told you to take it down but the story feels incomplete for me without it and I'm pretty sure I can give better advice based off her looks.

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

It was a picture of her and a little girl was in the photo too..

 

[Kaleo15]

Ahhhhh.... I see! Then good call.

 

[nawghtyhare]

I would hit her back
If I hadn't smashed yet
Just to smash
If u have
Then I wouldn't hit her back
Ur a dude
Way more women then men out there
Women come dime a dozen
Don't stress over or let a female cause u stress ever
At least until y'all married