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So my fellow NT Alpha's (yes the term is over-used but just go with it for now)
This is the third time in a two month span that I have not been invited on a trip / event / party due to other men being insecure. I will keep it short. Went out with friends....girl is into me..."friend" (acquaintance really i don't have many actual friends) has liked this girl for a while but isn't doing anything about it. There is a trip this weekend they are all going on (same group of people i went out with last weekend). Dude tells girls "he is busy i think". I don't get invite to trip due to "friend" feeling threatened by me being there.
For the record (no pics) she is ok looking, the girl in question. Id smash for sure. But dude was talking about wifing her and all this non-sense. I was like uhhhhh ok?
But this type of behavior seems to be happening a lot to me these days. I don't understand what ever happened to bro's over garden tools. Or let the best man win...or just acknowledging she doesn't like you or likes me more. I have had times where i brought a girl around and i liked her and she hit it off with a friend....in which case i say damn guess she is into him more....anyway on to the next one.
This is also why i find myself solo a lot these days because i can't trust people at all. Anyone else have these issues?
inb4
-get new friends (i am a 25 year old single male...i ain't hitting on dudes at a bar to get bro dates)
- You ain't no alpha you would say something/throw hands/clap son's shoulders (I am not going to call them all out and make things awkward i just dead them so when i see them again its all fine but i just cut myself out)
- yns
- something about yambs/dambs or fambs
This is the third time in a two month span that I have not been invited on a trip / event / party due to other men being insecure. I will keep it short. Went out with friends....girl is into me..."friend" (acquaintance really i don't have many actual friends) has liked this girl for a while but isn't doing anything about it. There is a trip this weekend they are all going on (same group of people i went out with last weekend). Dude tells girls "he is busy i think". I don't get invite to trip due to "friend" feeling threatened by me being there.
For the record (no pics) she is ok looking, the girl in question. Id smash for sure. But dude was talking about wifing her and all this non-sense. I was like uhhhhh ok?
But this type of behavior seems to be happening a lot to me these days. I don't understand what ever happened to bro's over garden tools. Or let the best man win...or just acknowledging she doesn't like you or likes me more. I have had times where i brought a girl around and i liked her and she hit it off with a friend....in which case i say damn guess she is into him more....anyway on to the next one.
This is also why i find myself solo a lot these days because i can't trust people at all. Anyone else have these issues?
inb4
-get new friends (i am a 25 year old single male...i ain't hitting on dudes at a bar to get bro dates)
- You ain't no alpha you would say something/throw hands/clap son's shoulders (I am not going to call them all out and make things awkward i just dead them so when i see them again its all fine but i just cut myself out)
- yns
- something about yambs/dambs or fambs