My Valentine Dilemma

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Just this past Thursday, I was after this girl Rose. Since our conversations were on point, I thought I'd make the move that night at the on campus hotspot. Earlier on in the day I sent out a mass text where people are going to be and in particular another girl, Grace who I've casually talk to, said gopre-drink at Qs but come clubbing at Sixers afterwards.

At Qs, it didn't pan out my way with Rose. Grace however the whole night was on the texting game asking about me and saying she was looking forward topartying with me, why aren't are you here etc.

I told her it got good at Qs which it did honestly so I didn't think I would make it to Sixers and it was on the other side of town to party.

Grace asked me what I was doing after clubbing and that I should head over to go play some rockband or ddr. I asked her, "really?.. rockband.."

She says, "lol or whatever you want to believe..."

Feeling deflated with Rose, I didn't know how to act so I told Grace that I'd definitely chill with her soon but not tonight. Given its Spring Breakfor me, What could've happened at her place, who knows...

All this time when I've spoken to Grace it was just friendly casual talk with me being Cocky-Funny without even realizing. My mind was set on Rose thoughand Grace for all I know could've just wanted to touch skins no relationship asked.

I'm definitely kicking myself right now. What's my game plan now...
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Cliffnotes:
  • I was after this girl, Rose. Our convos were on point from weeks on in.
  • Another girl who I've casually spoke to, Grace same night was looking foward to partying with me across town.
  • Rose wasn't feeling it. I'm deflated.
  • Grace is on the text game the whole night, "why aren't you here?, i was looking forward to partying with you, come to my place and play rockband after clubbing" She obviously wanted to see me that night.
  • All caught up after Rose I told her I'd chill with Grace another night. In the end, I feel like I rejected her.
  • Tess is worthy to pursue
  • I need a game plan on my return after a week off
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you didnt do a very good job at introducing this "grace" character. she just kinda came out of nowhere mid sentence.

even the cliffnotes are hard to follow.
 
Originally Posted by thytkerjobs

you didnt do a very good job at introducing this "grace" character. she just kinda came out of nowhere mid sentence.

even the cliffnotes are hard to follow.
 
From my understanding Grace wanted it, but he wanted to give it to Rose. Rose stunned on him and he blew his chances with Grace by saying something aboutspring break.
 
Sooo let me guess..

Rose is the better looking one and the one you want to be with.

Grace is the one who isn't as good looking but is definitely interested in you.

You think you took an L because Grace was pretty much throwing it at you but you didn't want to do anything with her in fear of Rose possibly finding outand screwing up your chances with her.

So now YNS and you still don't know how Rose feels about you.

amirite?


Hmmmm....

Okay - here's what you do:

Call up Rose (or text, whatever you kids do these days) and ask her to hang out with you. If she turns you down, call up Grace. Don't mention to Grace thatyou called Rose first.
 
Originally Posted by Ghenges

Sooo let me guess..

Rose is the better looking one and the one you want to be with.

Grace is the one who isn't as good looking but is definitely interested in you.

You think you took an L because Grace was pretty much throwing it at you but you didn't want to do anything with her in fear of Rose possibly finding out and screwing up your chances with her.

So now YNS and you still don't know how Rose feels about you.

amirite?


Hmmmm....

Okay - here's what you do:

Call up Rose (or text, whatever you kids do these days) and ask her to hang out with you. If she turns you down, call up Grace. Don't mention to Grace that you called Rose first.


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i dont know why this has me chuckling at work.
 
Originally Posted by Ghenges

Sooo let me guess..

Rose is the better looking one and the one you want to be with.

Grace is the one who isn't as good looking but is definitely interested in you.

You think you took an L because Grace was pretty much throwing it at you but you didn't want to do anything with her in fear of Rose possibly finding out and screwing up your chances with her.

So now YNS and you still don't know how Rose feels about you.

amirite?


Hmmmm....

Okay - here's what you do:

Call up Rose (or text, whatever you kids do these days) and ask her to hang out with you. If she turns you down, call up Grace. Don't mention to Grace that you called Rose first.
Haha.

I know NT wants a quick story and obviously I screwed up trying to tell it in the shortest but detailed way possible.

But this almost sums it up. I was after Rose and I spoke to Grace casually. Rose was on my mind so I didn't even think that Grace was remotely interested.Mistake on my part I think.

With all those texts, it basically says, "Hey I want to see you tonight!"
 
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