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Hey NT-
I'm in school with this girl, started messing around a couple months ago. She has a boyfriend of 2 years- he works in another city, she says therelationship has been falling apart. However, she, him, and their friends from college went on a trip for a week to the Bahamas (I had already made plans formy winter break)
When I'm with her, we do bf/gf stuff- dinner (we alternate paying), hanging out with her friends, going out by ourselves to bars etc. My question: Is thisa good situation? Should I be fine with being #2? I don't really need a relationship, and keeping status quo will likely keep me in a decent situation,although should I have to go out with her & put in the time?
I've never been the #2- anyone with experience? Is this an unacceptable position for a guy? (sorry- didn't mean to sound sexist, just not sure how toput it)
Pics will follow- I'm in the airport right now. I'll try to post them tonight.
I'm in school with this girl, started messing around a couple months ago. She has a boyfriend of 2 years- he works in another city, she says therelationship has been falling apart. However, she, him, and their friends from college went on a trip for a week to the Bahamas (I had already made plans formy winter break)
When I'm with her, we do bf/gf stuff- dinner (we alternate paying), hanging out with her friends, going out by ourselves to bars etc. My question: Is thisa good situation? Should I be fine with being #2? I don't really need a relationship, and keeping status quo will likely keep me in a decent situation,although should I have to go out with her & put in the time?
I've never been the #2- anyone with experience? Is this an unacceptable position for a guy? (sorry- didn't mean to sound sexist, just not sure how toput it)
Pics will follow- I'm in the airport right now. I'll try to post them tonight.