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Hoping some older NT'ers can tune in and give me some much needed advice.
Going to try and keep it short.
Over the last few months Ive been all over the place mentally.
I moved to NYC from Florida last May, was super burned out from my life school(about 50 credits in)/work and basically not being happy where I was. I needed a break, I needed something new. Dropped out of school and spent every dollar I had to move here.
After living here for about a year, I am as lost as ever. Not the biggest fan of school, but after living here with no degree and surviving off waiting tables..I see that this is not a life anyone should want to live and I think its time for me to get back in school.
However..going to school and supporting my self financially out here would be super stressful, even more stressful then it already is.
Just about the only thing I want to do right now at 22 is travel and grow and experience life..figure out what in this world can make me happy.
So in order to get back in school and travel I'm left with a few options...Move back home to south fla to the life I didn't even want to live anymore..Move back to fla but upstate where I could live for dirt cheap, making school and travel the easiest(would also give me another "going away to school" experience did it at 18 but didn't take full advantage of it), ..Or stay in NYC/ or another major city back home like Miami and struggle with doing what I want/need to do just to live some where I want to live.
Now that you can see where my heads at...WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO BROS. I'm not asking for you to decide for me...I'm asking for advice from people who have been deeper into their lives journeys then me who can help me make the best choice.
Thank you.
Going to try and keep it short.
Over the last few months Ive been all over the place mentally.
I moved to NYC from Florida last May, was super burned out from my life school(about 50 credits in)/work and basically not being happy where I was. I needed a break, I needed something new. Dropped out of school and spent every dollar I had to move here.
After living here for about a year, I am as lost as ever. Not the biggest fan of school, but after living here with no degree and surviving off waiting tables..I see that this is not a life anyone should want to live and I think its time for me to get back in school.
However..going to school and supporting my self financially out here would be super stressful, even more stressful then it already is.
Just about the only thing I want to do right now at 22 is travel and grow and experience life..figure out what in this world can make me happy.
So in order to get back in school and travel I'm left with a few options...Move back home to south fla to the life I didn't even want to live anymore..Move back to fla but upstate where I could live for dirt cheap, making school and travel the easiest(would also give me another "going away to school" experience did it at 18 but didn't take full advantage of it), ..Or stay in NYC/ or another major city back home like Miami and struggle with doing what I want/need to do just to live some where I want to live.
Now that you can see where my heads at...WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO BROS. I'm not asking for you to decide for me...I'm asking for advice from people who have been deeper into their lives journeys then me who can help me make the best choice.
Thank you.
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