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So it seems anytime I meet a female on social media, pof, whatever, that i kinda get a mental idea of who they are based on our personal conversations with inboxes, DM, etc. Posts never really influence my thinking cause lets be honest, its like predicting tomorrow's weather based off disaster movies. But I'm pretty patie t before talking to them on the phone for a number of reasons. Primarily, I want to show I'm not pressed to woo anybody over because i don't have a problem getting females to pay me attention and i also want to see if they are just playing a role or if this is who they are so far. SO 75% of the time off the first phone conversation i have i get a completely different perception of them amd they turn out to not be the same. Some of them say its because they try to protect themselves from being hurt again, but i believe its something societal. Like off the first few text or pm conversations they are sweet girls, classy, intelligent, with goals or priorities. But after talking to them or meeting them its a contradiction on most counts and they act like teenagers. I mean whats your take on it, you think it's a cultural thing or is this the norm now?
AND NO I DON'T RELY ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR DATING SITES TO MEET PEOPLE SO DON'T SAY STOP TRYING TO MEET PEOPLE ONLINE LOL.
AND NO I DON'T RELY ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR DATING SITES TO MEET PEOPLE SO DON'T SAY STOP TRYING TO MEET PEOPLE ONLINE LOL.