Op if she takes you to court you will loose because you were at fault. Who was driving the car? You were man so your responsible as far as the shoes I'll take them off your hands :hat Take care of the damages and move on.
Pretty much. One day I dropped something down the platform and missed my train so I could jump down and pick it up after it departed. I'm 5'11 so it was pretty simple but don't know how tall was the victim. :{