I'm in this exact situation as we speak, basically being forced to pay the fine up front because I'm going on vacation and my court date is issued the day before I'm scheduled to come back :x :{
Knowledge. Listen.
Look man, if you fight him and lose, she won't want you
If you fight him and win, his friends will %^$& you up, and she won't want you
If you fight him and win, and somehow win against his friends, she won't want you
And even if she does want to be with you after any of...